Lauren got married to Paul, but eight weeks later he walked off and then moved in with Lauren's mother Julie. He now has a child with both Lauren and Julie.
Relationships can be quite a complicated affair and separation can be even messier. A woman lost her husband to her mother, and the mother then went on to have a child with her daughter's ex-husband. Twisted, isn't it? Daily Mail reports Lauren Wall, now 34, from Twickenham, south-west London had married airport worker Paul White when she was just 19. Her mom Julie, now 53, even pitched in and paid over $19,000 for her wedding. Lauren, who was grateful to her mom for the help and support took her along on their honeymoon to Devon.
‘My Mum Paid £15,000 for My Dream Wedding… Then Had a Baby with My Husband Nine Months Later’: Daughter, 34, Tells How She Can Never Forgive Her 53-Year-Old Mother After Ultimate Betrayal and Heartbreak at Seeing Her Marry Ex, 35 https://t.co/QOwM6Av3LX pic.twitter.com/qzL0KwczDh— BCNN1 (@bcnn1) January 19, 2020
In a mere eight weeks, her then-husband moved out, and nine months later, her mother gave birth to her child with Paul. They then announced to the world that they're together. "Paul always got on really well with mum. I never thought it strange though, as she was his mum-in-law and he was just being friendly," said Lauren. "They'd laugh a lot together. I didn't think to be worried at all. Who would?" Lauren probably thought her husband and her mother were getting along well.
Lauren is a special kind of victim and also a masochist. Her mother & husband were deceiving her 4 a long time. Her mother is 2 disgusting 2 mention and her ex should not be allowed near her child. Going along with a perverse charade teaches her daughter 2 do the same thing.— Paula Bradford (@pbrad22) January 19, 2020
That definitely wasn't the case here, as Lauren later realized. "I couldn't wait to settle into marriage but the ink was barely dry on our certificate when Paul changed." She also mentioned that Paul started to become really protective of his phone, but then Lauren's sister, who used their mom's phone, apparently found what Lauren claims to be an exchange of text messages between Julie and Paul. However, her mother denied there was anything between them, telling Lauren she's crazy.
What a horrible Mother, I hope Karma comes to them both. #ultimate betrayal#— Loraine Foley (@lfoley54) January 19, 2020
"When I confronted Paul he went white as a sheet – and refused to let me see his phone," Lauren said. Days later, he took off his wedding ring and walked out on Lauren and their 7-month-old daughter. Then, she heard that Paul had moved in with her mom and she just could not believe that two people whom she loved and trusted more than anyone else would do this to her. Understandably, she felt heartbroken and betrayed.
Can’t believe she still has anything to do with her “mother.” Someone with so much disregard for her daughter & who lied so much deserves to be booted from her life....#toxic— pam a (@pam_i_am_A1) January 19, 2020
"It was sick. It's one of the worst things a mum can do to a daughter. Paul may have been a gutless groom but she's my mum. She's meant to love and protect me above all others." Lauren, now a business development manager, met Paul at a bar when she was 18. She fancied him right away. "He asked for my number and the next day he texted asking to go on a date to the cinema. We started going out straight after that." Soon enough, she found out she was pregnant and their daughter was born in March 2004. They got married soon after.
Yes, she’s certainly better off without him, but her mother should be someone special to you, who you look up to and learn from, total betrayal. That’ll be so much harder to get over than a husband.— anita Jaeckel (@anjack91) January 19, 2020
Five months later, when they got married, Paul told her that he wanted to spend the rest of his life with her, but then he walked out on her and then Lauren started to hear rumors about how her mother was pregnant with Paul's child. She even saw her mom walk down the street with a bump and when confronted, Julie said she was bloated because of a cyst. That's when Lauren set about getting a divorce. In July 2005, nine months after Paul had walked out, Lauren's mum, Julie, gave birth to his baby.
Well unfortunately you can choose your friends but not your family and family’s are toxic sometimes— red robin 45 (@RedCubabubba) January 19, 2020
Julie apparently even tried to tell Lauren that the baby was someone else's. But then, they announced they were getting married and Lauren went to their wedding. "I went to watch Mum marry the same man I'd wed five years earlier." The mother and daughter have tried to mend broken bridges but they're still just getting there. Lauren also added that she talks to Paul because he's married to her mom, but that's all there is between them.
The heat wants what the heart wants.— Rickylotzz (@rickylotzz) January 19, 2020
Lauren is now happily pregnant with her fourth child but she says what happened will leave her with trust issues for the rest of her life. "Time is a great healer, and mum and I have tried to have a normal relationship. But we will never be as close as we were – and I'll never fully trust her again." Julie said: "We are married. We didn't have an affair. We are married and that's it." Paul has, however, declined to comment on the situation.
Mother still says it wasn’t an affair yet 9 months later his baby was born! Daughter walk away from this woman, your own mother, you owe her nothing. Walk away for YOUR daughters sake. Not all mothers deserve to be honoured. Walk away lovey!— Maggzee (@Maggzee) January 19, 2020