You don't always come across someone who knows exactly what they want. They're precious, don't lose out on them!
Most women bend over backward to keep the people in their lives happy. That's what women have unfortunately been conditioned to do. A lot of them are amazing, and independent and have no problem speaking out what's on their mind. They're not one to hold back and they live life to the fullest with not a care in their world because they're confident they can always find their way out of any situation they're in. They don't feel the need to depend or rely on anyone, and this is what makes them so desirable. This is why men can't help but go weak in the knees when they come across a strong woman. When you're in a relationship with a strong woman, you come across a lot of firsts. So, if you're in love with one, or trying to get into a relationship with one, here are eight things you need to keep in mind:
She's someone who strongly believes that you go big or go home. There is no in-between for her. Unless you prove to her that you're willing to give the relationship your everything, she will not be convinced for anything less. She knows she's worth everything and she will not settle for mediocre. She's beyond the phase where she takes things casual. She's in it for the real deal, so don't waste her time, or yours, if you're half-minded about it.
A lot women will move mountains to make sure you're happy and comfortable when you prove to them you're in it for the real deal. You'll soon discover that you both will be embarking on a new journey together with the same dreams and goals. You know how they say two hearts, one soul? That's how you're going to feel when you realize you've met your soulmate and all you need to do is treat her right.
It's going to take some time to get to her good side. She's been through enough so she's weary to let people in. She's seen all kinds of horrible and that's why she takes her time to warm up to people. If you're persistent and try to convince her you're worth her time, you'll get to see a completely different side of her. One that's so full of love that she's going to shower you with it. She's also going to show you this fun and wild side of hers that not everyone gets to see, so cherish the moments you spend with her.
She is someone who knows the difference between right and wrong very well. She's only going to do something if her conscience lets her. You just cannot control a strong woman, that's going to unleash something you will be unable to control. She knows what she's worth and she wants your love and respect, not your orders. She strongly believes that two people in the relationship are equal, and she will treat you with the same love and respect that you give her.
It's one thing to make a mistake and then come clean about it. it's another to try and lie your way about it. She's a strong woman, and she can handle things. You're not going to hurt her by saying the truth. In fact, you're only going to hurt her if you lie to her about something. Also, never patronize her. She doesn't want that. All she wants is a chance to communicate without hiding each other's feelings and thoughts.
In a relationship, people are dependent on one another. That's how they learn of each other's insecurities and grow. But, don't be surprised if your girlfriend does not come to you for every small thing. There's a reason she's such a strong woman, and that's mostly because she knows how to take care of herself. Don't beat yourself up thinking you've done something wrong for her to behave this way, instead be happy that she is different from the others!
She wears her heart on her sleeve and her emotions are what makes her, her. If she's sad, she's going to cry like there's no tomorrow, and if she's happy, she's going to laugh her heart out. Her emotions can surprise you, but a strong woman does not shy away from expressing herself simply the way she is. She's not going to bury it and wait for it to all come out at a later point. She will talk to you about it and deal with it. Trust me, it's better this way.
Honesty is her middle name. She does not know how to sugarcoat something if she does not like it. If she's feeling angry, she's going to say she's angry. She's not going to pretend to be okay if she's not and she's definitely not going to pacify you because she's worried of how you'll feel if she speaks about something openly. She's going to have an opinion on things, just like you do, and she will voice them, whether you like it or not. So pay attention to her thoughts because it will help you both understand each other better in the relationship.