It's hard to let go of someone who you thought was going to be in your life forever, but life doesn't always go as planned. And well, you need to stop begging them to come back. Instead, walk away the minute you feel unwanted.
Feelings are vulnerable and can change any minute. Even if someone says forever, it may not necessarily last that long. That's just how life is, and we need to come to terms with it, just so that we can avoid getting hurt over and over again. As always, there are exceptions to every rule, but in most cases, women tend to get their heart broken because they've handed it over to the wrong man who decided to just play games with it and then ghost her. It all starts off with you meeting a man, and you think you like him. It looks like he likes you, too. You decide to take it a step further and go on a date and see that there are sparks flying.
As time passes, you start to feel like you've met the love of your life, so you decide to give the relationship your everything. You fall in love, head over heels for the man and you start to imagine a future together with this man. But sadly, this dream doesn't last for long. Soon enough, he starts finding faults with you, things that never bothered him before; things like how you behave or how you treat him. You know that's not true, because you treat him right, but that's when you begin to realize he's just looking for a reason.
He's only looking for a reason to leave, and when he does, it breaks your heart in ways you never thought was possible. All you wanted was for him to come back and tell you that he made a mistake by leaving you, and you would be more than willing to take him back. She just did not want to face reality, the fact that he was just not into her, and she never meant anything to him, even though she gave him her everything.
After some time, you feel anger. Angry, because how could someone just play with your emotions like that? You let your guard down and decided to let someone else into your life, but they just played with your feelings and made you feel completely unworthy of love. Sometimes, you'd still keep texting and calling him, just because you need an answer. Yes, you deserve closure, but this time, it's better to let this one go. He doesn't deserve it.
Don't be someone who can't take a hint. You know, the minute you feel like you aren't getting his undivided attention, leave. Honestly, there's nothing that's there to hold you back. You need to remember that you deserve to be treated with a lot of love and respect. Think about it, you know all those red flags were there, but you didn't want to act on it because you thought he'd change. I know, love does crazy things to you, and one of them is letting your self-respect go for a toss.
The thing is, strong women like us don't put up with such nonsense. You really don't need to keep holding onto a man who refuses to see the good in you and stay in your life. Trust me, he isn't worth your love and attention. He is not worth your tears and your sorrow, because he's the one who decided to leave, even though you were willing to move mountains for him. This is not the end of the world, but even though it's painful, you'll get over it in time. Remember, strong women don't beg, they leave the moment they feel unwanted.