He "argued about my previous miscarriage saying it was probably a boy and I "ruined it" for him," revealed the woman.
Pregnancy is a beautiful journey, but there's also a lot on our minds during the period. Life after giving birth is definitely going to change. It's only natural for expecting parents to want a baby girl or boy, but ultimately, what happens is not in our hands, right? Sure, you could feel disappointed, but eventually, you will love your child irrespective of their gender, right? Sadly, some people can be really stupid and this pregnant mother took to Reddit to share a rather horrible incident. She revealed that she'd been married to her husband for 11 years, and they're parents to two beautiful girls.
The woman reveals that she'd had a hard year, especially since she had a miscarriage. I got pregnant and had a miscarriage at the first trimester, it was devastating for me and my husband, my husband has always been hoping for a son, and he was so frustrated because we were going to stop having kids after my last pregnancy didn't go well. Somehow, her husband wanted her to get pregnant again because he wanted to be a father to a baby boy. My husband started convincing me wanting to change my mind so he could have "another shot" to become a dad to a baby boy, I told him I wouldn't do something when I'm not convinced, especially when he wanted me to go against my doctors orders.
Soon enough, she got pregnant again. I was told it was gonna be risky and there was another chance for miscarriage add to that my overall health and how it's been affected. My husband was literally counting the day on the calender hoping that the first trimester will pass without any issues. With time, he started buy baby boy clothes and even refused to go with his wife for the ultrasound for her so they could get to know the baby's gender. I was upset that he was acting like this, my ultrasound revealed that it was a baby girl, I did call my husband but he didn't pick up, so I sent it in a text.
When she got home, she saw that her husband was with the kids, looking rather upset. I asked him if he wanted to talk because he was quiet the whole time, that is until the evening when he blew up on me wanting to know if I was "testing him" and lying about our baby gender to see his reaction,I told him it was a girl, he was talking infront of the girls saying how he was not too excited for "another" girl and wanted a boy, argued about my previous miscarriage saying it was probably a boy and I "ruined it" for him. This hurt the woman quite a bit but she didn't say anything to him because she did not want to create an issue.
She however, did tell him to stop blaming her for something that she can't really control. She added that he was just being childish, because she can't change the baby's gender in her womb just because her husband wants a baby boy. He threw a fit asking what he's going to do with the stuff he bought and refused to stop arguing days later. It's become so exhausting having to listen to this everyday, basically just shaming and guilt tripping me, The girls even asked why their dad was upset because they're gonna have a baby sister. And if they had a baby brother he'd love him more. Thankfully, fellow Redditors were quick to point out that there wasn't anything wrong on the woman's part.